Let me begin this article by giving you the results of a past survey I have done on a college campus. Throughout the course of a week, I interviewed numerous girls and asked them what usually causes them to "notice" a guy initially, as well as what parts of the body they look at first when they check the guy out. Here are the things that seem to catch a girl's interest the most.
1) The style of the guy - Style of dress and the way he moves. Does he have good posture and "stand out" from the crowd, or does he hide behind his friends?
2) Whatever "gadget" he has with him. Is he carrying a briefcase (Is he mature)? Or wearing a backpack (Is he adventurous)? Or maybe he's carrying a cell phone?
(Definitely not a loner.)
And when a guy catches their attention, they begin to check out his
3) Face
-The hair - Is it messy or is it "cool"?
-Pimples - Are there just a few? Or does his face look like a volcano?
-Eyes - Do they look smart and confident?
-Glasses? If so, ARE THEY CLEAN? And do they fit the guy's face?
-Is the face dirty?
-Is the face "cute"?
As soon as they are done "checking out" the face, the next part they check out is *SURPRISE, SURPRISE* not the abs or biceps, but:
4) The shoes.
-Are they clean?
-Do they fit?
And only when they've finished examining the above do they turn their gazes to
the shoulders, the chest and the butt.
Do you see a pattern in all of this?
I do.
Women look at the opposite of what men look at when men check women out. While men go right for the obvious women parts, women go for the "accessories" such as the hair and glasses.
And this is good for us, as these are things we can actually control.
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